Black History Feature
Black History Matter Video Series
Below check out quick informative videos to learn more about important Black figures and events throughout history, such as Lincoln Alexander, Sister Rosetta Tharpe, bell hooks, Bayard Rustin, James Wesley Hill, and many more voices that often have been overlooked in textbooks and in schools.
Learn more about Black allyship and access Black-centered resources
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“Although I have experienced many wonderful moments of inclusion and acceptance, I do still experience racism to this day: usually microaggressions, as opposed to overt racism. My solution to that is to speak up when I need to address bigotry, and focus on the support and allyship that surrounds me when I need it.“ - Saidat
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“Being a person who wants to make a difference is the first step. Speak up - let someone know that you are not ok with what is happening. Report - if it happens at school, your principal and teachers are people you can connect with to find a resolution and make sure that action is taken. Live by example: You can be a role model in your community and demonstrate acceptance and compassion in your own language and actions.“ - Saidat
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“If it’s someone who doesn’t think this is a big deal, I’d say that racism is real and it’s dangerous. Being targeted for who you are hurts and makes you feel isolated and angry like almost nothing else. But it also doesn’t have to be that way. Pick up a book or watch a documentary about a part of the Black experience with an open mind. It’s not “us” vs. “you.” We’re neighbours, and loved ones, and friends. If it’s someone who’s trying but nervous of not getting it exactly perfect - I’d say keep trying, and keep learning. I’m learning too. And I appreciate you!” - Chris
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“We get this question a lot. Some Black people do feel empowered by reclaiming a word that was historically used to dehumanize Black people. I don’t personally use the word, but I also wouldn’t tell another Black person not to be empowered by saying that. However - someone who is not Black should absolutely not be using that word. It is racist for someone who is not Black to say, even if your Black friends do.” - Courtney
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“Frank and honest worked well for me. From an early age, my parents let me know that I would encounter people who will treat me unfairly because of the colour of my skin. That it’s not right, but it will happen, and so when it does, know that it’s not right, stand up for yourself (if you’re safe to), and we’ll be there for you always. When something racist happened on the news, or in popular culture, or in our own lives, they would always make sure to break it down, explain it, and firmly take a stand that it was not right. It didn’t make it hurt less when it happened, but at least it wasn’t out of nowhere, and I knew I wasn’t facing it on my own. I am so grateful for them providing me this strong support growing up.” - Chris
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“We get this question a lot. Some Black people do feel empowered by reclaiming a word that was historically used to dehumanize Black people. I don’t personally use the word, but I also wouldn’t tell another Black person not to be empowered by saying that. However - someone who is not Black should absolutely not be using that word. It is racist for someone who is not Black to say, even if your Black friends do.” - Courtney
Tips on Becoming a Better Ally
Avoid invasive questions.
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Message received: “You are not Canadian, you are a foreigner. You don’t really belong here.”
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Message received: “You’re so exotic… speaking of which, may I invade your personal space?”
Avoid making assumptions.
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Message received: “You’re all the same, right? Like that movie I saw, from the 90’s?”
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Message received: “I am immune to racism because I have friends of colour… and no I didn’t really hear what you said.”
Avoid dismissing lived experience and calls for action.
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Message received: “I, as a white person, do not care to talk about, or acknowledge race.”
One thing to note: It is possible to avoid making someone feel “othered” or different, on a day to day basis, while still acknowledging and validating their lived experience when relevant. If you were raised to believe “We don’t look at anybody differently, because of the colour of their skin,” we’re not saying that’s a bad thing - that’s a beautiful thing.
But when somebody is trying to tell you about racism that they have faced, it’s important not to dismiss it by saying something like “Wow that’s so weird, because I don’t even see you that way.” Because that person does have to live that experience every day.
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Message received: “I don’t really care to acknowledge, or to learn how Black lives specifically are in danger.”
No one is saying that all lives don’t matter. We are saying that all lives can’t matter until Black Lives Matter.
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There are countless digital resources out there: Instagram and TikTok accounts, podcasts, documentaries, books, the list goes on. We shouldn’t expect marginalized people to be walking textbooks; it’s important to do some of that education on our own time. We’ve included a few resources that we love at the bottom of this page!
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Most people feel that they need to save the day by jumping right into the action, but how can you be a problem solver before knowing the real problem? Paying full attention to what Black people are expressing will turn allyship without productive results into real change.
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Here are some approaches that have worked well for us:
If it’s more of a mistake, sometimes pulling someone to the side and giving them the benefit of the doubt can give someone the chance to learn and do better next time, instead of shaming them in front of a group. “Hey - I know you didn’t mean to hurt anyone by saying that, but…”.
When it’s a stereotype being made, sometimes a simple question can start the conversation. “Do you actually believe that?”
Finally, when it’s more of an attack, clear and direct often works best. “Hey - don’t say stuff like that. That can really hurt people.” We also recognize that it may not always be safe to have that type of confrontation, but even in those circumstances, don’t forget to check on people who may have been harmed.
We know from personal experience that being called something like the n-word, in addition to making you feel hurt and angry, often also makes you feel extremely alone. And so if you, as an ally, are able to go over to someone and say “Hey, are you ok? That was really messed up,” it at least lets someone know that they are not alone, and that there is someone in their corner.
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Get comfortable being uncomfortable. If someone tells you that something you said/did was hurtful or even racist, it's not a time for you to be insulted. It's a time for you to listen and learn. Being called a racist doesn't make you the victim. You might not always get it right! Listen, educate yourself, then do better next time.
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We need everyone in this fight against racism, and no one person or organization can do it all.
People tend to wait until something bad happens to someone that they know personally, like a friend, neighbour, family member or classmate before they decide to do something about it or speak up. Honestly, that's just too late. For a long time, Black people all over the world (including Black Canadians) have been telling their white neighbours and community leaders about the violence, systemic racism and oppression that they face daily because of the colour of their skin.
Don’t wait for something horrible to happen to someone you know. Get out there and do what you can. Whether that be donating your money, your skillset, or your time; protesting, organizing, voting, or running for office; educating yourself, your colleagues, friends, or your family; or producing articles, graphics, or documentaries - it all adds up. Use the tools at your disposal and find your voice. You might be surprised at the ripple effects that you can have, inspiring someone else to find theirs too.
Helpful terms
Racism
Prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular racial or ethnic group, typically one that is a minority or marginalized.
Colour Blind Racism
Racial or colour blindness reflects an ideal in the society in which skin colour is insignificant. There are concerns that majority groups use colour blindness as a means of avoiding the discussion of racism and discrimination. Example: “I don’t see colour.”
Systemic Racism
A form of racism that is embedded as normal practice within society or an organization. It can lead to such issues as discrimination in criminal justice, employment, housing, health care, political power and education, among other issues.
Colourism
Prejudice or discrimination against individuals with a dark skin tone, typically among people of the same ethnic or racial group.
Microaggressions
A term used for brief and commonplace daily verbal, behavioural, or environmental indignities, whether intentional or unintentional, that communicate hostile, derogatory, or negative prejudicial slights and insults toward any group, particularly culturally marginalized groups.
Example: “You’re pretty for a Black girl”; “You speak so well for a Black person.”
White Privilege
The societal privilege that benefits white people over non-white people in some societies, particularly if they are otherwise under the same social, political, or economic circumstances.
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